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I find that having zero expectations, single parenting and having my own life makes our marriage work well. You'll question your parenting decisions but he won't be involved in supporting you because he'll have no idea what's going on and little interest.
If my husband and I had been dating during any of this, it would not have lasted long a few weeks maximum.
It can't be antiMormon. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens.