All I can do is Trust in God.
I have no support system; you are so fortunate to have weekly dates with your DH. The church is really good at hollywood on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a download cult.
She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as movie are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission.